Marriage

Just came back from a cousin wedding and i must say meeting up with relatives is so much fun. I have lots of brothers and almost all of them are married, their wives (ie my Bhabhis) always are pestering me to be next one who will walk on the isle soon. When we meet, i am kind of surrounded by them and asked questions on "when you gonna get married?", "are you seeing anyone?", "what kind of girl do you like?", "send me your biodata" but it is so much fun answering them and getting a reply back. (also love the fact that i am centre of attraction)
There is one indian term, "Marriage is like a sweet, those who eat it suffer and those who don't eat it suffer"
Well for my defence which i haven't told them yet is....i am a commitment phobiac dunno but hate to give out promises. And to be with someone for your whole life you have to take that deep plunge, there was a good comment from a guy who i went to do my tattoo from "Marriage in India is just a certificate, you never know what goes behind the doors"
I would not mind going for a live in relationship for a while just to know how things go on for a while. If i am into something, I love to give 100% of myself and don't expect half measures from people i am working with.
Just talking my Uncle said what are you going to do for your marriage and then we started making grand plans. Well i would love to go for a court marriage and then take my baarat (the people i know near and dear) to Goa, have a 2 day fest where it will be all informal with dance on the beach and fun in the casino.
At the end of the day everyone laughed and went back home.